Ep 161 Rachel Stone Gr8 Q's - "It's Their Time not yours"
Update: 2025-09-18
Description
The Great Eight – Breakdown
- Best Coaching Advice Ever Received
 - Be fully present—it’s their time, not yours.
- Meditation helps her access deep listening and minimize distractions.
- She watches for “thinking ahead” as a signal that she’s drifting.
 
- What She’s Still Improving
 - Continually working to stay present.
- Resisting the instinct to solve problems or add her own ideas.
- Coaching is about holding—not hijacking—the space.
 
- Most Outrageous Thing in a Session
 - Told a CEO during a pitch, “What have you done about that?”—boldly shifting accountability.
- It was quiet. Then he hired her for three years.
- She believes in delivering truth with service and courage, even early on.
 
- What Still Makes Her Uncomfortable
 - When clients arrive unprepared and deflect blame.
- Feels uncomfortable when coaching is undervalued or used as a scapegoat.
- Handles it with gentle redirection or recontracting—but always with compassion.
 
- Advice to Aspiring Coaches
 - “You can be the best coach in the world, but if you’re not known, you won’t have clients.”
- Understand marketing—it’s essential, not optional.
- Coaching is only 15% of the job; 85% is everything else (especially if you run your own business).
 
- What She’s Had to Conquer
 - Her self-worth. Struggled to charge for her services early on.
- Learning not to view coaching as an “hour-for-money” exchange.
- Realized clients pay for the wisdom, investment, and depth—not just the session.
 
- How She Uses AI
 - Still early stages—mainly using it for planning and content brainstorming.
- Asked ChatGPT to interview her so she could better articulate her niche and market positioning.
- Sees the value in time efficiency but draws a line to protect authenticity.
 
- What She’s Learned About Herself
 - Boundaries matter—both with clients and in life.
- She can’t coach everyone, everywhere, all the time.
- Coaching has deepened her sense of purpose and even led to love: one of her past clients is now her life partner.
 
🎉 Fun Stuff
Guilty Pleasure:
Sea swimming—preferably naked.
Rachel says if it’s appropriate and she’s near the water, the swimsuit just might stay on the beach.
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